Happiness...Happiness...Happiness....
That one word changes your totality around. For real...being happy is literally the best thing that can ever happen to you. A lot of wonderful things makes you happy. Like when you get an ice cream Sunday for free or when you win one large amount of cash without even expecting such to happen to you. Happiness, truly is free. But to some extent, it isn't free as you think. Happiness turns one's life around. It makes you feel so good that everything around you doesn't become an issue suddenly. You suddenly forget everything that spoils your mood. YOU become a free man. When you happy, you wouldn't think twice of doing something to make other's feel the way you feel because you want them to experience that feeling. its amazing.
When someone gets you a brand new car, or when you win a travel ticket, when you gain admission to college, or when your fiancee proposes to you..A lot of amazing life experiences makes you experience that feeling.
I remember the time I got admitted into college without passing the university cut off Mark for my course. It was a heavy miracle. That was literally the happiest day of my life. I locked myself in my room and danced for over an hour without any music. Happiness is wonderful. It makes you understand another value of life.
The key to being happy is knowing you have the power to choose what to accept and what to let go.
Happiness comes from peace, and peace comes from indifference. Happiness is something already made. It's not how much we have something or someone that makes up happiness, but how much we enjoy them.
Happiness is when your life fulfils your needs, not your wants. It comes when you feel satisfied and fulfilled. It's that feeling of contentment that life is just has it should be. It all comes when all your needs are satisfied.
True happiness is enjoying your own company and living in peace and harmony with your body, mind and soul. It's the feeling of true love for yourself.
Being happy is a very personal thing and really has nothing to do with anyone else. Happiness doesn't mean everything is perfect, it means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections and being satisfied with it all.
So what determines your happiness???
YOU!!!!!!!!!!
Yessssss....YOU!.....No one else determines your happiness for you...just you and only youu.
Although it is said that 50% of your happiness is determined by your genes. 10% of your happiness is determined by your circumstances with your life and 40% is determined byc your actions, your attitudes and optimism and the way you handle situations. Well, to an extent,its true. But that's not what determines your happiness.
You are the only one that knows what and what not to do to make you happy. Because...You!! Give meaning to events.. YOU!!..are the architect of your belief system....YOU!!!..set the expectations and standards of life...YOU!!...morderate your inner dialogue....YOUR reality is based on HOW much effort YOU are willing to put into it.
The only thing that will make you happy is being who you are and not what people think you are. It's a direction, not a place..and it all depends on YOU.
Very little is needed to make a happy life. It's all within YOU. In your way of thinking. Although, Happiness will lose its ,meaning if it isn't balanced by sadness. It's a consequence of personal effort.
It still depends on YOU!.
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