YES!!!!.....IT'S ALL ABOUT YOUUUU

JUST YOU...JUST ME

          Yesssss!!!!....Its just you..you and only you. I'm writing this for you. Yes youu!!. And when I mean you...i mean understanding the concept of who you really are..and trust me, it's all that matters. Because you alone mean so so much.

            Ok so... I'm Tumilara. I clocked 18 last November.. weird right??..Well..this is my first published post on my blog and it's really really weird because I didn't know what exactly and how to write.I'm a zero when it comes to writing articles,essays poems and shits like that. Like I literally failed English because of this same writing. Writing is stress to me abeg. And so..because of writing and all..i had a second thought about opening my blog. So i didn't really take this blogging thing serious at all. But there was something i really did have interest in..and that is understanding people. I love it when people share their deepest experiences and come to talk to me. Not like I'm one bad ass motivational speaker or counsellor. But the concept of relating with people really did get to me cause I love human relationships a lot. And so..This was the first thing I could actually think of writing. And that is YOU.

So I grew up in a very small town in lagos where most people just live their lives minding their business with no form of familiarity or intimacy among themselves. Those people are just there. They usually don't care about the lives other people live or what exactly they go through. I saw this as something not worth understanding or thinking about because of a truth you can't trust anyone and you don't know who is who. So it was better for them to just mind their own business and live their lives the way they want to live it. And so, I didn't really take people serious until a neighbour in my compound died and no body In my neighbourhood showed up for his funeral or even to compensate his family for you to know how bad it was. At that moment, my heart opened towards people. I started having interest in people.

 I wanted to explore and examine people. A lot of questions started running round my head. Questions like....Who are these people?...what do they want?...why do people behave this way...why are people like this?....why do they have this mentality?...i began to wonder what runs through the minds of people and the reason why sometimes..they behave badly or positively towards others. And so... I wrote this for YOU....Because you are what makes up people. And without people..this earth is nothing. So you know how much you mean..not just to me, but to the world at large.

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   Who are You??This question you have probably answered at least once In your life.There are two scenarios to this question. The first scenario is when a stranger asks you, "Who are you?"...you now ask yourself..."Who am I?" and you begin to answer..i am so and so. The second scenario is when a person wants to get intimate with you like a dating setting. So when she asks you "Who are You?".. what he /she mean is "tell me more about you. They want to know the things that describes you..like your job, age, height. They are interested in your passions, phobias, hobbies and interests. 

     It seems to be the simplest question one can answer. Yet, when you take time to figure out who you are, you find this question as the one that requires critical thinking. It's like the hardest question life has asked you. It's then attract much more questions like... What type of person are you?. How do people describe you when you aren't around?. Are you strong minded about anything that seems totally random?. What do you think you have fetish for?.

        All these questions is all about you. You are the principle element behind your lifestyle. Your experiences, your ideas, your reactions, your philosophy of life, your passion for sports, music, and helping those less fortunate than you. YOU possess that UNIQUE GREATNESS. You are unique in your own way..thats one think I'm very certain of. And that why it's all about YOU. Life is all about YOU. Love is all about YOU. Experiences is all about YOU. Everything is all about YOU. And that is why the world is waiting on you. The universe is counting on YOu. They are waiting to see what YOU have to show forth. They want to see what YOU have to offer. They look up to YOU. And that is the reason why YOU mean so so much, not just to me alone, but to everyone around you.

     Always remember, YOU are UNIQUE and created for a purpose. And so.. YOU have to work towards achieving that purpose because the whole world is waiting on YOU. You have to show them what exactly you have to offer for them. YOU have to understand yourself. Ask yourself questions, What exactly do i want?...How do I get it?..What do I do?.. Seek solutions to these questions. Understand people. Understand the world around you. Put a smile on people's face. Make yourself happy. Be proud of the Person you are becoming. Be who you are.

        Trust me, I'm not one bad ass motivational speaker like I stated before. But with the whole of my heart, I'm telling you all this because I am waiting on you. I want to see YOU make it. I want to be happy for YOU. So also the whole world too.

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