5 AMAZING WAYS TO DISCOVER YOUUU.



I usually think motivational articles like this doesn't really have much impact to people probably because I feel most people don't pay much attention to talks like this, including myself. We most times, skip or ignore life changing writeups like this without understanding the content of what message it passes across. 

So I specially wrote this for you.

The thing is, knowing who you truly are doesn't literally mean knowing what you love doing...Probably your favourite movie, food, best sport, favourite music, those who you love relating with the most, and stuffs like that. Knowing you means knowing the truth of you.

 And the truth of you is the greatest and most important adventure of your life. To truly know yourself is the most important skill you can ever possess. When you know who you are, you definitely know what you need to do. Instead of seeking unnecessary help and permission from others to do what you already know what you ought to do. We then carry on with the most important question we'll ever mask....who am I really??...what exactly do I want to do with my life. These questions runs through our minds with unpuzzled answers. Without knowing how to fix ourselfs. But once you know yourself, you become much more confident, you'll understand every of your purpose and begin to make bigger impact to the world, cause it's waiting for you to show yourself. 




So how do you know who exactly you are, and what exactly you ought to do with your live. How exactly do you want to discover you. Here are five amazing ways to discover your true self.

1. MAKE SENSE OF YOUR PAST.
          It's the first and most important step you have to take,  you have to know your own story. Be brave and confident to explore your past. Don't allow anybody to make you feel like trash because of your past mistakes and don't feel insecure because of your past experiences, they just pull you down. Because it isn't just the things that happened to us that defines who and what we become, but how we've made sense of what has happened to us before. When you try to cover up your past experiences, 
you feel lost like you don't know yourself. It is these life experiences that often determines how you define and defend yourself. It is the foundation of discovering your true self. 

2.BE QUITE, DONT TALK TOO MUCH, JUST OBSERVE.
        You won't be able to to know yourself until you calm down and  take time to be still. Most people find this very difficult because a sort of silence scares them. Sit down and talk to yourself. Evaluate yourself and be completely truthful with yourself. Talk to yourself about the good and the bad. And understand every facet of your life. You'll get to understand yourself better.

3.FIND OUT WHAT YOU ARE GOOD AT AND NOT GOOD AT.
         Yes, I know it's the most difficult step in the process of finding who you are, but it's a very necessary one. Your strength will show you who you are and your weakness will tell you what isn't meant for you. Whether you like it or not. It's an important step in knowing the true you. 


4.UNDERSTAND AND REALIZE WHO YOU TRULY ARE, AND NOT WHO YOU WANT TO BE.
       A lot of people make this mistake in their life experiences. They don't understand who exactly they are, the purpose of their existence, but rather, it's what they want to become in the nearest future they work towards becoming. I know you already have a set of numerous ideas of who you desperately want to be. But trust me, it might not be what you were designed to be. This is why knowing who you truly are is really important. When you understand this, you get to see how you and your specific gifts fits into the bigger picture. 

5.EVALUATE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
         Know who and how you deal with people. A large aspect of knowing yourself can be found in your relationships with people. You get to realise you'll never really know anyone until you discover yourself first. As much as you need to know yourself, other people need to know who you are. People need you, the world needs you and not just you, the real You!

            
              I tell people, I'm not a motivational speaker..i just really love understanding the concept of people's life experiences. I find interest in people a lot. 
              So, you have to use your reflections to fight your fears. Because when you understand what you want to be, your purpose becomes bigger than your fears. And you tend to focus on your strength much more, cause it's what defines YOU!!. 


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10 Comments

  1. Wow this is really nice.
    Keep it up

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  2. Awwnnnn
    This is like the best thing I have seen on the Internet today

    You are awesome Tumi💕

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  3. Reading this makes me feel good and with this,it make discover something about you.....you are genius Timi🤷🏼🤷🏼.......

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  4. Yo,a lot of people don't really do this,I mean you're helping us find ourselves even though we're both products of the same fucked up generation...but seeing you do this,shows that it's not entirely fucked up...this is wonderful and I'll be happy if you could keep it up.
    REVOREB

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  5. This is really amazing tumilara i feel really blessed meeting someone like you in this screwed generation
    Keep this up you're doing well😌

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  6. Ma'am. You've done very well.

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  7. This is meant for me
    Thanks Tumi💖

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